May 21, 2009

the hurt in disguise

Don't you realise? That, by always trying to protect her feelings, you hurt her even more.

People should stop this self-glorification idea about protecting another's feelings by witholding the truth. Or worse, do something that totally deviates from what the truth would be, giving an impression that that protection is the truth. Because it certainly is not.

Like, instead of telling you, "life sucks, deal with it!", it became "life is beautiful, and the problems in life are just a test of your strength and faith."

Sounds like religion to me. I'm spiritual but I'm not into religions. So, don't try.

Posted by 杏 cy （Jancy） at 18:01